My 3 Months in Albania – I know this isn’t goodbye
I’m nearing the end of my 3 month Albania stay and I’m totally emotional.
Locals have asked me if I’d ever come back, their faces already showing doubt, as if the question itself was rhetorical. At times, I hate admitting I’m American because of the weight of certain stereotypes that follow us. I can’t blame people for believing them—so few of us travel to places like this to challenge those perceptions. And let’s be honest, some of those stereotypes are true. But let me assure you, not all of us think we have “everything.” In fact, many of us seek out places like Albania because they give us something we can’t find at home: richness and depth that go far beyond material wealth.
I’ve traveled to and lived in 35 countries, and Albania stands out as one of the most rewarding. There’s so much beauty here—not just in the landscapes but in the people. I’ll never forget walking down the streets of Vlorë and having kids run up to me, make the eagle gesture with their hands, flash a big smile, or shout “Hi!” before dashing off. I’ve loved being stopped by strangers curious about what I think of their country and how they genuinely care about my answer. The pride in your community is something I deeply admire.
For weeks, I tried to articulate what makes Albania so special, more than just saying, “It feels normal.” Because it’s true. It’s been one of the easier countries for me to integrate in. I encountered very minimal culture shock.
Eventually, I stopped trying to name it and instead went about daily life as usual, sat in cafés, observed, and absorbed. What I’ve come to understand is that Albania’s essence isn’t surface-level or tied to a single trait like many other European countries—it runs deeper.
There’s a subtle but profound spirit here, an air of empathy, love, strength, awareness, and resilience. At times, it feels like numbness, but I know that from this grows something unbreakable.
The last three months have only reinforced what I felt years ago during my first visit to Tirana. Albanians have a unique way of going out of their way to make you feel seen and welcome. As an American, I am so grateful to places like this for shaping me in ways my own country couldn’t.
Albania has taught me invaluable lessons about community, kindness, and hospitality—lessons I will carry with me forever.
I’m also grateful to have been here during such an exciting period, witnessing Vlorë’s growth—not just in tourism but also in the expat community. While I’m sad to leave, I know this isn’t goodbye. I’m confident my path will lead me back someday, and I’ll be welcomed just as warmly as I was this time.
To the eagles of Albania: thank you. For everything.
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